Overcome Your Fear of Abandonment Then Begin to Enjoy Your Relationships

Fear of Abandonment has the power to drive people that you care about away from you.

It is the insecurity which is fueled by the fear of abandonment which destroys enjoyment and will squeeze the life out of your relationships.

Usually there is a clear cause of Fear of Abandonment. Perhaps you may have had many ‘ failed relationships ‘ where people or even your friends have walked away from you. Maybe you have got yourself into the habit of becoming involved with people who may be in some way unavailable or people that are much more likely to leave you with the feeling of being abandoned. Abandonment issues sometimes may partially come from feeling abandoned emotionally or physically when you were a child.

Fear of Abandonment Begins a Self-Fulfilling Prophecy

As being human all of those need people. Many of us fear that we will be abandoned at some point in our lives. But for some people the fear of abandonment can become a major issue when the fear begins to control them as well as controlling their relationships. Are you able to afford to have your life controlled by the fear of abandonment for one more day?

If a person’s greatest worrying is that they will become abandoned again or that people will always let you down, then they usually tend to live their life defensively. Living your life defensively means that a person will be constantly looking out for signs that they are about to be abandoned. This can lead a person to have overcontrolling behavior in their relationships which in turn will leave them much more likely to be abandoned again. So it is in the truest sense of the meaning, a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Clinginess Accompanies Fear of Abandonment

Fear of Abandonment perhaps is making you over clingy, behaving desperately and trying to seek intimacy much to quickly and relationships as well as friends.

People who are overwhelmingly suffering from the fear of abandonment they may sometimes feel that any ‘ wrong word ‘ that they say can cause a friendship or even an intimate relationship to come crashing down on top of them. They might feel like they have to ‘ walk on egg shells ‘ all the time, and they are also prepared to put up with all sorts of bad treatment because they don’t want the risk of being abandoned. It’s as if they become emotionally blackmailed by their own oversensitivity.

But of course all relationships need to be relaxed and we also need to be able to speak what’s on our minds when it’s appropriate without having the fear of being abandoned because of the tiniest little thing.

The Unconscious Reasons for the Fear of Abandonment

If you ever felt abandoned when you were younger then there’s a pretty good chance your unconscious mind is on the lookout for any little sign that it might happen to you again. This can be happening even if things in your life are secure area and it is in this way that your unconscious mind can be training to match up current reality to past reality and not realizing that on an emotional level you are stronger and much more able now to know that the fear is unjustified. This can be likened to a bird in a cage which the door has been opened, but the bird remains trapped inside because it fears that the circumstances have not actually registered.

Overcome the Fear of Abandonment uses deep relaxation, powerful hypnotic suggestions, positive affirmations, and guided visualizations to build your confidence as a person person this session will make you feel so much more relaxed around any relationships in general. Just imagine when you are able to go from desperately needing a relationship to simply wanting them as a complement to your everyday life.

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